Most people know that they need to actively manage their money. That means reconciling statements, reviewing investment choices, paying bills or making sure that auto-payments are happening, periodically checking for deals or better plan options on services, and learning about money topics so they can be informed consumers. Unfortunately, many people don’t do this. It’s not because they don’t want to, but because there are other things that seem to be more fun or important. They sit down at the computer or desk and jump back up again, eager to do anything but work on their money. Even cleaning the house can look good in comparison to sorting through the figures. It’s a form of procrastination and it tends to only get worse. The longer you put things off, the messier they get, and the more impossible they seem to deal with.
Since it’s difficult to make money matters as fun or thrilling as the newest blockbuster, you have to learn to get past the procrastination. While having some personal discipline helps, you can get around procrastination by making money management a habit. When something becomes a habit, you tend to do it without even thinking about it. Do you argue with yourself when it’s time to take a shower or brush your teeth? Do you look for other things to do to keep from performing these basic tasks? No, because it’s a habit you’ve ingrained in yourself. They aren’t fun things to do but you do them out of habit.
To make money management a habit, you need to create an appointment for yourself and then honor that appointment no matter what. Say, for example, that you will work on money matters for fifteen minutes every Saturday at 7 PM. (You can set the time for longer, if you wish, but when you’re just starting out hour-long blocks can seem intimidating and just lead to more procrastination. Smaller chunks of time are easier to take.) Then sit down on Saturday night and pick a money task to work on. Maybe you record new transactions in your checkbook, or you research insurance options. Maybe you review your investments to see how things are going or set up some auto-payments for your bills.
Whatever you decide to tackle, do it without interruption for those fifteen minutes. When your time is up (a timer can help) you can keep going if you want to, but if you decide to stop you can get up feeling virtuous that you kept your appointment with yourself. If you need to give yourself a little reward (like a piece of candy or something else you enjoy) you can do that, too, to give yourself a little more reinforcement.
Even if you don’t think you have a single money-related thing to do that day, keep the appointment. Read a financial article you’ve been meaning to get to, or visit a forum and see what kinds of experiences others are having. You may learn something from them. Keep that appointment, though. Once you’ve mastered fifteen minutes, you may want to try thirty minutes, or two fifteen minute sessions a week. Keep increasing the time until you’re taking care of everything you need to do. Eventually, when your money is more under control, you’ll find that the time required will go down. Still keep the appointment, but feel free to cut it down to ten minutes if that’s all you need.
The idea here is that, the more often you keep those appointments and leave the table with good feelings because, “Hey, I did something!” the easier it will become to sit down the next time. You’re forming the habit of managing your money. You’re incorporating it into your life, just as you’ve incorporated showers, eating, and other things you do on auto-pilot. You’re giving yourself positive reinforcement by patting yourself on the back and giving yourself a small reward. Eventually, these appointments will become second nature and you won’t feel the need to do ten loads of laundry rather than handle your money.
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