Cheap Therapy – Strange Ways to Save Money

If you ever find yourself in a position where you need therapy to deal with the stresses and strains of life, your wallet is likely to experience sticker shock. Hour-long sessions usually start around $100 and go up from there. Therapy is sometimes covered by insurance, but many plans exclude it, pay only a small portion, or limit you to just a few sessions. (Personally, I think this is terrible. Mental illness is just as debilitating as physical illness and should be treated accordingly.) If you don’t have insurance, it’s harder to find a charitable therapist than it is to find a doctor who will work with you.

So what do you do if you need therapy but you just can’t afford it (or you just don’t want to pay for it)? There are some alternative outlets that may be helpful, although if your issue is severe you probably need to find a way to get “real” therapy.

Church groups: Some churches offer counseling services for free. Some are run by pastors or trained counselors, others are run by well meaning volunteers. They may offer general counseling and support, or host specific groups that help people deal with death, divorce, drug abuse, or other issues. Chances are it will be in a group setting, although you may be able to schedule some time to talk to the leader privately.

School therapists: Schools and colleges usually have counselors on staff to offer counseling if necessary. At a college, you may be helped by a student enrolled in the psychology program. School counselors may not be licensed psychologists, but they are usually trained counselors.

Phone hotlines: Almost every major city (and many smaller ones) have a hotline service for crisis counseling. The people on the other end of the line are usually volunteers who have gone through training. You may even get lucky and find a true psychologist volunteering their time. Some are oriented towards teens and others are open to everyone. As a bonus, these hotlines sometimes have a list of therapists or mental hospitals in the area that are willing to work with those who cannot afford treatment.

Support groups: Many cities have a variety of support groups. You can find a chapter of AA almost anywhere. Groups for those going through divorce, victims of child or domestic abuse, those dealing with specific illnesses, rape victims, and those battling drug addiction are common. You may also be able to find other types of support groups, as well. Some are listed in the yellow pages, some sport an online presence, and others may advertise on TV or post flyers in public buildings.

Online support groups: If you don’t have an actual support group in your area, chances are you can find one online. Google the issue you need help with and “support group” and chances are good that something will come up. These are usually message boards, although some might offer live chat, as well. This one may be the least helpful, but it is interesting. It’s a “therapy bot.” You type your issue into the box and the bot offers some suggestions for you. You can go back and forth with the bot and see what suggestions it turns up. There is no real person on the other end. On the one hand, it’s private. On the other, the advice is generic.

DIY therapy: If you are able to be open and honest with yourself and you are able to correct some of your own faults, you can try DIY therapy. First, head to the library and get some books on the issue you’re facing. Many self-help books offer ideas for dealing with problems. Take some time, too, to journal about your problems. The act of journaling often exposes destructive patterns and thoughts and lets you see them more clearly. It also lets you vent and express anger and hatred in a safe environment. It’s not easy, but it is private.

Please note that these are not substitutes for real therapy and they should not be relied upon by people who have severe mental disorders or who are contemplating suicide. However, they can be helpful in working through some problems in your life. Some people may find free therapy resources a little strange or extreme, but it may be better than getting no help at all.

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5 Responses to Cheap Therapy – Strange Ways to Save Money

  1. tommy says:

    Wow, be crazy and save money at the same time…

  2. Gail says:

    Another thing to try, or ask a pharmacist do it for you, is check to see if what you are going through could be medication related. In relation to another medical problem I had last year I was put on Reglan, within weeks I was crying almost nonstop the depression was so horrible. When we found that the Reglan could be the cause, we stopped it and with prayers and help also of the pastor I was able to pull out of it and be able to smile and laugh again. I never want to be in a pit like that again where you are essentially helpless. So if you are experiencing NEW symptoms check out any new medications you may be on and talk to your MD about it.

  3. CindyM says:

    Church, hands down. Make it a habit to show up and be around people of all ages from all walks of life and both sexes who share your beliefs, get involved, CARE about other people, slow down your life if possible, forget yourself for awhile. I personally think this is the best medicine. “Psychology” focuses on ME whereas a bible-based faith will be on the welfare of others, HUGE difference. You’ll rethink all those things you thought were important in life.

  4. hamchan says:

    “Therapy is sometimes covered by insurance, but many plans exclude it, pay only a small portion, or limit you to just a few sessions.”

    Since the mental health parity act was passed around 7 or 8 years ago this is no longer allowed, though it used to be pretty common.

    These are all very good suggestions though. The hotlines in particular are very helpful in a crisis. I can also add that any hospital psychiatric unit will have nurses on staff 24/7, and you can always call and talk to a nurse if you need to. They are very well trained. Hotline staff/volunteers are also generally trained very well, but often do not have a medical background.

    Personally I have gotten religious based counseling in the past as well, and I did not find it to be at all helpful. Your mileage may vary.

  5. hamchan says:

    Way to be ignorant, offensive, and obnoxious.

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