What do you want? I don’t mean what fantastic things do you wish you owned or could do or could be. What reasonable things do you want in life that you do not currently have?
Do you want to be healthier?
Do you want to spend more wisely?
Do you want a nicer car or better clothes?
What do you want?
If you cannot answer that question, or if your answer is “I want nothing more than I already have” you can stop reading now. Rather, you can stop reading until you have figured out what you want. And all protests to the contrary notwithstanding, we all want something more.
Now that you know what you want, ask yourself how many times you have convinced yourself that you cannot...