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		<title>By: mahanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>mahanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 18:46:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this i agree with, i will not bring my own drink in anywhere (seattle&#039;s water is not too bad so have free water usually) and i either eat before the movier or after.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this i agree with, i will not bring my own drink in anywhere (seattle&#8217;s water is not too bad so have free water usually) and i either eat before the movier or after.</p>
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		<title>By: Dee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 19:36:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>this is so very petty.  So what if a guy brings his own water, he isn&#039;t disturbing anyone, and bought a sandwhich.  If I owned the establishment, I would be happy he felt comfortable to do so and buy my sandwich, rather than going elsewhere.  If he is comfortable, maybe he will come back and buy another sandwich on another day, but If I were a snob about it, then he probably wouldn&#039;t come back, and who has lost on that one.  

Another issue is when my husb and I want to share a meal because both of us do not need to consume the quantities served. we do this regularly, and at a few lower end hamburger shops were told they would charge us $2 to cut the burger in half. We said, ok, then don&#039;t cut it and don&#039;t bring an extra plate.  wasn&#039;t going to happen.  So we no longer eat there.  that in my opinion is poor customer service, so they got their $2 once, but not again from us. A little service like that makes a big difference to me.  I always think if I were the owner, I would be doing everything I could to encourage people to want to come here vs going down the street, so how hard is it to cut a burger in half?? Or just simply provide an extra plate.I&#039;m sure that has ran alot of people off that have figured out that they do not need to eat massive meals when they dine out.  

Something that is appalling is parents who bring their young children to a eatery and allow them to scream and yell and argue all to the misery of others who then cannot enjoy their meals.  THAT is appalling.  I have left my food, or had them box it up for me just to escape this nerve racking noise.  Parents should never allow their children to disturb others in a restaurant.  It&#039;s not that I don&#039;t like children, I do very much, and had four of my own. They were never allowed to do that.  If there was a problem we took them outside, so as to not disturb others. seems like common courtesy, to not inflict that on people while they are trying to enjoy a nice usually expensive meal.   So ya, bring your own water by all means, just don&#039;t disturb others with your uncontrolled kids, or constant loud talking on the cell.  If you can&#039;t control them then thats what McDonald&#039;s is for, not a nice quiet restaurant. 

I believe that management should assist people with this as well when things are out of control, and people are miserable.  I would rather offend the parents of the offending kids than loose all of the other customers who don&#039;t want to hear it. 

Would I sneak food into a theater, probably would just go without, or may bring in something healthy if I really needed it, otherwise I may buy the stupid popcorn.  If I had health issues, yes I most definitely would.  Again, don&#039;t think it a big issue. 

If theaters don&#039;t like this practice then they should figure out what the public wants and accommodate that such as adding more healthy selection and lowering prices. Thats is what the free market is all about. then people would probably be glad to buy from them, but trying to strong arm people into buying their food while seeing a movie obviously isn&#039;t going to work so well. Not that I don&#039;t want them to make money ~ thats what business is all about and I&#039;m all for it, but customers shouldn&#039;t feel that they have no choices, and feel like they have been taken to the cleaners with the prices.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is so very petty.  So what if a guy brings his own water, he isn&#8217;t disturbing anyone, and bought a sandwhich.  If I owned the establishment, I would be happy he felt comfortable to do so and buy my sandwich, rather than going elsewhere.  If he is comfortable, maybe he will come back and buy another sandwich on another day, but If I were a snob about it, then he probably wouldn&#8217;t come back, and who has lost on that one.  </p>
<p>Another issue is when my husb and I want to share a meal because both of us do not need to consume the quantities served. we do this regularly, and at a few lower end hamburger shops were told they would charge us $2 to cut the burger in half. We said, ok, then don&#8217;t cut it and don&#8217;t bring an extra plate.  wasn&#8217;t going to happen.  So we no longer eat there.  that in my opinion is poor customer service, so they got their $2 once, but not again from us. A little service like that makes a big difference to me.  I always think if I were the owner, I would be doing everything I could to encourage people to want to come here vs going down the street, so how hard is it to cut a burger in half?? Or just simply provide an extra plate.I&#8217;m sure that has ran alot of people off that have figured out that they do not need to eat massive meals when they dine out.  </p>
<p>Something that is appalling is parents who bring their young children to a eatery and allow them to scream and yell and argue all to the misery of others who then cannot enjoy their meals.  THAT is appalling.  I have left my food, or had them box it up for me just to escape this nerve racking noise.  Parents should never allow their children to disturb others in a restaurant.  It&#8217;s not that I don&#8217;t like children, I do very much, and had four of my own. They were never allowed to do that.  If there was a problem we took them outside, so as to not disturb others. seems like common courtesy, to not inflict that on people while they are trying to enjoy a nice usually expensive meal.   So ya, bring your own water by all means, just don&#8217;t disturb others with your uncontrolled kids, or constant loud talking on the cell.  If you can&#8217;t control them then thats what McDonald&#8217;s is for, not a nice quiet restaurant. </p>
<p>I believe that management should assist people with this as well when things are out of control, and people are miserable.  I would rather offend the parents of the offending kids than loose all of the other customers who don&#8217;t want to hear it. </p>
<p>Would I sneak food into a theater, probably would just go without, or may bring in something healthy if I really needed it, otherwise I may buy the stupid popcorn.  If I had health issues, yes I most definitely would.  Again, don&#8217;t think it a big issue. </p>
<p>If theaters don&#8217;t like this practice then they should figure out what the public wants and accommodate that such as adding more healthy selection and lowering prices. Thats is what the free market is all about. then people would probably be glad to buy from them, but trying to strong arm people into buying their food while seeing a movie obviously isn&#8217;t going to work so well. Not that I don&#8217;t want them to make money ~ thats what business is all about and I&#8217;m all for it, but customers shouldn&#8217;t feel that they have no choices, and feel like they have been taken to the cleaners with the prices.</p>
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		<title>By: Jeremy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeremy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 09:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In Thailand they have an amazing attitude towards this. People will actually come to your restaurant, sit and watch the TV (football), use your toilet and facilities, but they bring their own food and drinks.

Many local Thai restaurant owners, to my astonishment, seemed perfectly happy with this, just before they went bankrupt.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In Thailand they have an amazing attitude towards this. People will actually come to your restaurant, sit and watch the TV (football), use your toilet and facilities, but they bring their own food and drinks.</p>
<p>Many local Thai restaurant owners, to my astonishment, seemed perfectly happy with this, just before they went bankrupt.</p>
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		<title>By: Cindy M</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cindy M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Oct 2009 14:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Can&#039;t resist a comment here.  
Since I no longer attend the fancier movie places or chi-chi restaurants anymore, this is just not a problem for me. (If invited to do so, I&#039;d just order water).  I will these days occasionally hit the 2-dollar movie house and yes, I sure will quietly bring my own coffee in a thermos and a candy bar and could care less what anybody thinks of that.  Nobody has ever said a word.   Eating out for me these days is Wendy&#039;s, Taco Bell or Captain D&#039;s and yes, I do bring a can of pop if I do this.  Nobody&#039;s ever given me any grief over this and if anyone ever did, I&#039;d probably tell them where to put it, sorry (I do always purchase food there).  I frankly could care less what the guy in the other booth or movie house seat is doing as long as they aren&#039;t psycho.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can&#8217;t resist a comment here.<br />
Since I no longer attend the fancier movie places or chi-chi restaurants anymore, this is just not a problem for me. (If invited to do so, I&#8217;d just order water).  I will these days occasionally hit the 2-dollar movie house and yes, I sure will quietly bring my own coffee in a thermos and a candy bar and could care less what anybody thinks of that.  Nobody has ever said a word.   Eating out for me these days is Wendy&#8217;s, Taco Bell or Captain D&#8217;s and yes, I do bring a can of pop if I do this.  Nobody&#8217;s ever given me any grief over this and if anyone ever did, I&#8217;d probably tell them where to put it, sorry (I do always purchase food there).  I frankly could care less what the guy in the other booth or movie house seat is doing as long as they aren&#8217;t psycho.</p>
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		<title>By: David G. Mitchell</title>
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		<dc:creator>David G. Mitchell</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 01:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mom-from Missouri (and others) ~ In my opinion, health concerns always take precedence over frugality.  I agree completely that if there are compelling medical reasons to do so, it is entirely reasonable bring beverages and even food into restaurants or anywhere that you might be.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mom-from Missouri (and others) ~ In my opinion, health concerns always take precedence over frugality.  I agree completely that if there are compelling medical reasons to do so, it is entirely reasonable bring beverages and even food into restaurants or anywhere that you might be.</p>
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		<title>By: mom-from-missouri</title>
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		<dc:creator>mom-from-missouri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 22:14:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can&#039;t agree with you on this one.  I have an eleven year old daughter who has severe colon issues and has to drink a Polyethylene Glycol mix 6 times a day.  Rather than mix it when we go out, we bring her drink in.  It is colorless and to others appears to be water, unless we mix it in with juice or another beverage.

We have had people make rude comments to us numerous times.  

Frankly, it makes me mad (after putting up with this for 4+ years now) and it really is no ones business but our own.  

How do you know this man doesn&#039;t have the same issues?  Or is perhaps sensitive to some of the things added to water, such as chlorine or flouride??

No, its not &quot;Wrong&quot; at all times-different to you maybe, but not necessarly wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can&#8217;t agree with you on this one.  I have an eleven year old daughter who has severe colon issues and has to drink a Polyethylene Glycol mix 6 times a day.  Rather than mix it when we go out, we bring her drink in.  It is colorless and to others appears to be water, unless we mix it in with juice or another beverage.</p>
<p>We have had people make rude comments to us numerous times.  </p>
<p>Frankly, it makes me mad (after putting up with this for 4+ years now) and it really is no ones business but our own.  </p>
<p>How do you know this man doesn&#8217;t have the same issues?  Or is perhaps sensitive to some of the things added to water, such as chlorine or flouride??</p>
<p>No, its not &#8220;Wrong&#8221; at all times-different to you maybe, but not necessarly wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: Rory</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rory</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2009 02:32:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You would hate Australia.

Here is Perth, Western Australia, BYO (Bring Your Own) is the standard for most restaurants. Obtaining a license to serve alcohol is difficult and expensive, so most have a BYO license. 

If it&#039;s a fancy place that does sell its own alcohol then they may charge $1-$2 corkage if you bring your own.

It means you can go out mid-week, have a cheap meal and a great bottle of wine and not break the bank.

We go out far more often (so the restaurant doesn&#039;t lose out) and you can have exactly what you want.

Customers don&#039;t like feeling gouged or ripped-off (see all the comments about movie snack prices) so to be charged $25 for a $7 bottle of wine sucks, even if it is part of their cost recovery model.

I&#039;d prefer they made sustainable profits from their food and not cross-subsidize.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You would hate Australia.</p>
<p>Here is Perth, Western Australia, BYO (Bring Your Own) is the standard for most restaurants. Obtaining a license to serve alcohol is difficult and expensive, so most have a BYO license. </p>
<p>If it&#8217;s a fancy place that does sell its own alcohol then they may charge $1-$2 corkage if you bring your own.</p>
<p>It means you can go out mid-week, have a cheap meal and a great bottle of wine and not break the bank.</p>
<p>We go out far more often (so the restaurant doesn&#8217;t lose out) and you can have exactly what you want.</p>
<p>Customers don&#8217;t like feeling gouged or ripped-off (see all the comments about movie snack prices) so to be charged $25 for a $7 bottle of wine sucks, even if it is part of their cost recovery model.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d prefer they made sustainable profits from their food and not cross-subsidize.</p>
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		<title>By: Annie Jones</title>
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		<dc:creator>Annie Jones</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 15:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My thoughts on this are inconsistent.  I probably would not bring my own bottled water or soda into a restaurant, but I&#039;m not above ordering water, then flavoring it with the lemon and sugar the restaurant provides to make something like lemonade.  Or flavoring it with my own drink flavoring, such as Crystal Light.

Although we don&#039;t eat fast food often, I have bought my granddaughter lunch from a fast burger joint and taken it with us into a different fast lunch place where I wanted to eat instead.  No one has ever said anything about it.

Similarly, when I worked oustside the home, if a group of co-workers were going out to lunch at a fast-food place, it was common for one or more of us to bring our homemade lunch in with us to eat with the rest of the group.  We never had complaints from the restaurant for doing that.

We still have drive-in movies here and would never dream of NOT packing our own drinks and snacks to the drive-in.  That has carried over to the very few in-theater movies we see.  I have no problem taking snacks or drinks with me into the theater. 

If there is a sign on the door that explicitly says &quot;No Outside Food or Drink&quot;, then I&#039;ll make sure to comply.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My thoughts on this are inconsistent.  I probably would not bring my own bottled water or soda into a restaurant, but I&#8217;m not above ordering water, then flavoring it with the lemon and sugar the restaurant provides to make something like lemonade.  Or flavoring it with my own drink flavoring, such as Crystal Light.</p>
<p>Although we don&#8217;t eat fast food often, I have bought my granddaughter lunch from a fast burger joint and taken it with us into a different fast lunch place where I wanted to eat instead.  No one has ever said anything about it.</p>
<p>Similarly, when I worked oustside the home, if a group of co-workers were going out to lunch at a fast-food place, it was common for one or more of us to bring our homemade lunch in with us to eat with the rest of the group.  We never had complaints from the restaurant for doing that.</p>
<p>We still have drive-in movies here and would never dream of NOT packing our own drinks and snacks to the drive-in.  That has carried over to the very few in-theater movies we see.  I have no problem taking snacks or drinks with me into the theater. </p>
<p>If there is a sign on the door that explicitly says &#8220;No Outside Food or Drink&#8221;, then I&#8217;ll make sure to comply.</p>
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		<title>By: persephone</title>
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		<dc:creator>persephone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 13:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it all depends on the restaurant and how much you are buying there.  If I sit down at an outdoor cafe and I have a bottle of water that I am already sipping, I don&#039;t mind finishing it as long as I am ordering a meal.  Also, if a restaurant does not offer bottled water, I will usually order an iced tea and bring along a bottle of my own water.

(Yes, I know that the iced tea is made with the same water that the restaurant would serve to me, but I have a bottled water hang up!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it all depends on the restaurant and how much you are buying there.  If I sit down at an outdoor cafe and I have a bottle of water that I am already sipping, I don&#8217;t mind finishing it as long as I am ordering a meal.  Also, if a restaurant does not offer bottled water, I will usually order an iced tea and bring along a bottle of my own water.</p>
<p>(Yes, I know that the iced tea is made with the same water that the restaurant would serve to me, but I have a bottled water hang up!)</p>
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		<title>By: spicoli</title>
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		<dc:creator>spicoli</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 12:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve tried to bring food and drink into the cinema but I&#039;ve often been told that I am not allowed to do so.  Rather than toss my snack or beverage, I generally do not try anymore.  Instead, I tell myself that I&#039;ll grab lunch or dinner after the movie.  I find that for the price of a large drink and large popcorn, I can buy a full meal at a decent restaurant.  

I also find that it is easier for women to bring drinks and snacks into a cinema.  Men do not generally carry handbags in which to conceal the contraband!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve tried to bring food and drink into the cinema but I&#8217;ve often been told that I am not allowed to do so.  Rather than toss my snack or beverage, I generally do not try anymore.  Instead, I tell myself that I&#8217;ll grab lunch or dinner after the movie.  I find that for the price of a large drink and large popcorn, I can buy a full meal at a decent restaurant.  </p>
<p>I also find that it is easier for women to bring drinks and snacks into a cinema.  Men do not generally carry handbags in which to conceal the contraband!</p>
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