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		<title>By: Michalyn</title>
		<link>http://www.pfadvice.com/2006/12/18/how-much-should-you-tip/#comment-402749</link>
		<dc:creator>Michalyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 14:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm not originally from the US and while I usually tip I hate doing it. I don't understand why I can't just pay the true cost of the meal/service/etc including the true cost of the server's labor. Part of me suspects that a lot less people would take jobs as servers if there was a  standard wage. High risk = high reward. Sure no one is getting rich off being a waiter or a waitress but overall I think it balances out well enough that people want to do it. Otherwise they'd take other jobs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not originally from the US and while I usually tip I hate doing it. I don&#8217;t understand why I can&#8217;t just pay the true cost of the meal/service/etc including the true cost of the server&#8217;s labor. Part of me suspects that a lot less people would take jobs as servers if there was a  standard wage. High risk = high reward. Sure no one is getting rich off being a waiter or a waitress but overall I think it balances out well enough that people want to do it. Otherwise they&#8217;d take other jobs.</p>
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		<title>By: Schwamie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Schwamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 17:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I am neither for or against tipping, I can state that I too lived in Japan for six years.  While tipping doesn't exist, there is a service charge that is built into the tab at most restaurants.  This means that you are paying a tip if the service is good or not.  That was something that I was VERY much against (and still am).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I am neither for or against tipping, I can state that I too lived in Japan for six years.  While tipping doesn&#8217;t exist, there is a service charge that is built into the tab at most restaurants.  This means that you are paying a tip if the service is good or not.  That was something that I was VERY much against (and still am).</p>
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		<title>By: Brandon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brandon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 15:54:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I think the TIP thing is out of hand. First off I tip 20% and probably less or no tip for bad service. I do it to be nice but hope to get quick and good service. Usually a regular place I goto.Otherwise I am low tip person. I hit up a lot of high end places too in Dallas. Now my parents stick to the 10%-15%. After working in a real job I realize those people living on tips make too much money for what they do. I know hard working people making only $10 hr for the rest of there life. Where there is bartenders in Applebee's making $20-30. I say good for them but it makes it hard for the average person to go out. BTW I am working toward a accounting degree. With gas price unless tip demand goes down you will see the industry hurt more and more. Wages are not going up for real 9-5 workers.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I think the TIP thing is out of hand. First off I tip 20% and probably less or no tip for bad service. I do it to be nice but hope to get quick and good service. Usually a regular place I goto.Otherwise I am low tip person. I hit up a lot of high end places too in Dallas. Now my parents stick to the 10%-15%. After working in a real job I realize those people living on tips make too much money for what they do. I know hard working people making only $10 hr for the rest of there life. Where there is bartenders in Applebee&#8217;s making $20-30. I say good for them but it makes it hard for the average person to go out. BTW I am working toward a accounting degree. With gas price unless tip demand goes down you will see the industry hurt more and more. Wages are not going up for real 9-5 workers.</p>
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		<title>By: Jane LaRue</title>
		<link>http://www.pfadvice.com/2006/12/18/how-much-should-you-tip/#comment-277811</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane LaRue</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Apr 2008 04:57:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>servers/waitress get paid about 4.28 an hour by the place they work.  They depend on their tips to make enough to live.  If a server/waitress gives good service then tip them well.  15% would be okay for good service but more if you are really demanding.  My daughter is a waitress she received 56 cents on a $7.00 drink.  At least give a dollar.  At the end of the night she has to tip-out the bartender and the person who cleans the tables.  So your waitress needs the tip.  Also certain groups of people tend not to tip hardly at all and that is why some people don't like to wait on them.  From her experience many black people don't tip or tip very little, not all of them but alot don't even leave 10% yet run the waitress ragged.  People should tip for good service.  Thankyou</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>servers/waitress get paid about 4.28 an hour by the place they work.  They depend on their tips to make enough to live.  If a server/waitress gives good service then tip them well.  15% would be okay for good service but more if you are really demanding.  My daughter is a waitress she received 56 cents on a $7.00 drink.  At least give a dollar.  At the end of the night she has to tip-out the bartender and the person who cleans the tables.  So your waitress needs the tip.  Also certain groups of people tend not to tip hardly at all and that is why some people don&#8217;t like to wait on them.  From her experience many black people don&#8217;t tip or tip very little, not all of them but alot don&#8217;t even leave 10% yet run the waitress ragged.  People should tip for good service.  Thankyou</p>
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		<title>By: Lilly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lilly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 14:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well mtn medic, I do hear you complaining about not getting tips, in fact thats what your entire rant was about! I am in school to be a massage therapist, and I will never expect to get tipped, but as for the lower paid people than what you are getting, why not? Giving a couple  extra bucks never hurt anyone, and you never know, you might have helped your waitress feed her children that night, or make that couple extra dollars she needed for her tuition payment for college. I think that peoples driving force in life needs to stop being money and start being people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well mtn medic, I do hear you complaining about not getting tips, in fact thats what your entire rant was about! I am in school to be a massage therapist, and I will never expect to get tipped, but as for the lower paid people than what you are getting, why not? Giving a couple  extra bucks never hurt anyone, and you never know, you might have helped your waitress feed her children that night, or make that couple extra dollars she needed for her tuition payment for college. I think that peoples driving force in life needs to stop being money and start being people.</p>
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		<title>By: exbarman</title>
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		<dc:creator>exbarman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 19:48:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I must say, I have never understood why people flatly refuse to tip based on the fact that they feel pressured by Society (not the government, people! The government only cares about tips when it comes to tax season!).  Anyone ever watch Resevoir Dogs?  That first scene is Classic! "I expect the waitress to fill my coffee cup 6 times" = Perfect.  I was a bartender for 7 years, worked at 3 very high end restaurants, had to take multiple tests based on the massive amounts of information necessary to truly do your job WELL (!), and was rewarded by regular guests that appreciated everything that I was able to provide them! Bartenders are therapists, confidants, and friends as well as drink experts and joke tellers (or at least the good ones are).  Sadly, we have become accustomed to terrible service, and now accept it as being normal; bottom line, I expected tips because I knew that my guests were very happy when they left the restaurant, that my service was up to MY expectations, and that if I didnt get a tip from a guest that was just cheap, well... I still did my job to my exacting specifications.  If you don't tip as a rule, try a little experiment: Go to a restaurant/diner/bar where you normally go, and find your regular server; tip them BEFORE the meal, and see if you get better service. If you don't, well, they suck at their job and are just praying for something better to come along.  If the service is better, maybe, just maybe, the tip makes a difference! Make someones day, tip them well, see how the karma works for you =) I am not in the bar business anymore, as the work hours aren't exactly family oriented, but I tip heavily and often (maybe try an "over-tipping" policy??), and I will often tip the individual directly, telling them to put it in their pocket.
Do some good for your fellow humans! =)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I must say, I have never understood why people flatly refuse to tip based on the fact that they feel pressured by Society (not the government, people! The government only cares about tips when it comes to tax season!).  Anyone ever watch Resevoir Dogs?  That first scene is Classic! &#8220;I expect the waitress to fill my coffee cup 6 times&#8221; = Perfect.  I was a bartender for 7 years, worked at 3 very high end restaurants, had to take multiple tests based on the massive amounts of information necessary to truly do your job WELL (!), and was rewarded by regular guests that appreciated everything that I was able to provide them! Bartenders are therapists, confidants, and friends as well as drink experts and joke tellers (or at least the good ones are).  Sadly, we have become accustomed to terrible service, and now accept it as being normal; bottom line, I expected tips because I knew that my guests were very happy when they left the restaurant, that my service was up to MY expectations, and that if I didnt get a tip from a guest that was just cheap, well&#8230; I still did my job to my exacting specifications.  If you don&#8217;t tip as a rule, try a little experiment: Go to a restaurant/diner/bar where you normally go, and find your regular server; tip them BEFORE the meal, and see if you get better service. If you don&#8217;t, well, they suck at their job and are just praying for something better to come along.  If the service is better, maybe, just maybe, the tip makes a difference! Make someones day, tip them well, see how the karma works for you =) I am not in the bar business anymore, as the work hours aren&#8217;t exactly family oriented, but I tip heavily and often (maybe try an &#8220;over-tipping&#8221; policy??), and I will often tip the individual directly, telling them to put it in their pocket.<br />
Do some good for your fellow humans! =)</p>
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		<title>By: Jacqueline</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jacqueline</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Feb 2008 15:49:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How much do you tip household movers?</description>
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		<title>By: jnern</title>
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		<dc:creator>jnern</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2008 19:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Speaking as a special educator - NO MORE CANDLES. Give me a spa gift certificate anyday - I promise I will not see it as a bribe. A gift card for the classroom? Are you crazy?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Speaking as a special educator - NO MORE CANDLES. Give me a spa gift certificate anyday - I promise I will not see it as a bribe. A gift card for the classroom? Are you crazy?</p>
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		<title>By: Daily Idea &#187; Blog Archive &#187; How Much Should You Tip?</title>
		<link>http://www.pfadvice.com/2006/12/18/how-much-should-you-tip/#comment-125769</link>
		<dc:creator>Daily Idea &#187; Blog Archive &#187; How Much Should You Tip?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 04:07:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Tipping is tricky because a lot us donâ€™t always know when to tip, who to tip or how much to tip. We&#8217;ll help you make sense out of this topsy turvy world and today weâ€™re going to tackle tipping.For more information, check out The Simple Dollar  and Personal Finance Advice. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Tipping is tricky because a lot us donâ€™t always know when to tip, who to tip or how much to tip. We&#8217;ll help you make sense out of this topsy turvy world and today weâ€™re going to tackle tipping.For more information, check out The Simple Dollar  and Personal Finance Advice. [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Pedro Talavera</title>
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		<dc:creator>Pedro Talavera</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 12:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This an article I wrote.

I have been working in automobiles for about 30 years. In that time I have seen the good the bad and the ugly when it comes to automotive things and tipping. Tipping seems to be something that creates stress and insecurity on humans. But it is mostly because people prefer to ignore the facts than to humble them selves and research the subject.

Money represents many things to different people. Some service providers rely on tips to survive, others can do with out them finely. But I stress the point that a tip is not only the value as money but a gesture. A smile or a hand shake followed by a tip has much more meaning to a person.
Doing research about this subject I found that the internet has little or close to nothing about it (tipping mechanics). The reasons why people donâ€™t tip auto mechanics in my opinion are varied. 
People argue that mechanics make very high amounts of money. Not so. Only a very few mechanics get paid properly. The tools and training mechanics need to be able to be professionals are paid usually by themselves. So why should you be responsible for that? You arenâ€™t, a tip is a gesture. It is not expected but welcomed. If you are wealthy I say to you, be generous. The money you save is not going to do any good sitting in the bank.



Will a service provider be offended if you offer them a tip?

I am a mobile mechanic and shop owner, I have never gotten offended because someone wanted to show me their appreciation.
I read that in Europe in some countries tipping is not really practiced. If so, the tip is included on the bill.
To me a tip besides the monetary value has a deeper meaning. When it is given along a smile or a hand shake does wonders for your soul. 


Mechanics donâ€™t actually rely on tips to support their families, but some will probably be very happy when you tip them. They are indeed welcomed.

So what is considered adequate when tipping your mechanic?

I suggest this. If you are tipping a mechanic on a shop, 5% of the total bill before taxes, if it is a mobile mechanic around 8 to 10% of the bill (consider the convenience of someone coming to you), If the mechanic is also the shop owner then it is a little bit more tricky. Yes he/she makes â€œallâ€? the money but he/she also has all the expenses of the business (overhead), So maybe 5% will be fair. 
Remember be considerate. As you service providers are human, they get sad, distracted etc. Instead of withholding a tip, make a commentary to the manager for less than adequate service.
I agree that for intended very bad service with no explanation or apology you tip 0. Sorry.

Bottom line, you tip when you can and what your heart tells you. If you are a cheap skate, so be it, nobody wants to change you.

I read some service providers saying that they wonâ€™t accept a tip; well you must be making very good dough. But will you also reject a smile and or a handshake? No? I didnâ€™t think so. The money that the customer wants to give you comes from their heart most of the time, so actually you could be hurting their feelings by not accepting their present.

Remember, the mechanic only gets a small percentage of what the shop charges, and none from the parts he/she usually sells.
With out the mechanic the shop wouldnâ€™t be selling all those parts, still they get zero commission from that.

I think if you canâ€™t tip because you are actually broke, then indeed smile and give us a handshake, we will understand.


What about giving presents as tips?

I think that is up to you. If you are the kind of person that likes giving baked goods or a 6 pack of beer, by all means. Give to your heart contents.
The point here is this, what you are doing is showing your appreciation, not buying better service. Thatâ€™s why I recommend giving tips after the service is provided. That way no one has any expectations or duties.

Also do you have to tip every time you get service? Again, it is up to you. Some times you may not have enough to make a tip. It is ok. I donâ€™t think a mechanic that received a tip from you before is going to be offended because you didnâ€™t tip him/her again. Do not worry, as I said before we donâ€™t really count on your tip, but we donâ€™t hate the gesture.

I suggest you do some research on the net about this subject. There you can find much info that will enlighten you. Many people donâ€™t know when or how much to tip. If you go out   or travel a lot you need to educate your self if you want to avoid embarrassment. You need to be able to acknowledge other peopleâ€™s efforts in to be able to socialize. Cheap skates are not liked anywhere, donâ€™t be one of them.




9/07</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This an article I wrote.</p>
<p>I have been working in automobiles for about 30 years. In that time I have seen the good the bad and the ugly when it comes to automotive things and tipping. Tipping seems to be something that creates stress and insecurity on humans. But it is mostly because people prefer to ignore the facts than to humble them selves and research the subject.</p>
<p>Money represents many things to different people. Some service providers rely on tips to survive, others can do with out them finely. But I stress the point that a tip is not only the value as money but a gesture. A smile or a hand shake followed by a tip has much more meaning to a person.<br />
Doing research about this subject I found that the internet has little or close to nothing about it (tipping mechanics). The reasons why people donâ€™t tip auto mechanics in my opinion are varied.<br />
People argue that mechanics make very high amounts of money. Not so. Only a very few mechanics get paid properly. The tools and training mechanics need to be able to be professionals are paid usually by themselves. So why should you be responsible for that? You arenâ€™t, a tip is a gesture. It is not expected but welcomed. If you are wealthy I say to you, be generous. The money you save is not going to do any good sitting in the bank.</p>
<p>Will a service provider be offended if you offer them a tip?</p>
<p>I am a mobile mechanic and shop owner, I have never gotten offended because someone wanted to show me their appreciation.<br />
I read that in Europe in some countries tipping is not really practiced. If so, the tip is included on the bill.<br />
To me a tip besides the monetary value has a deeper meaning. When it is given along a smile or a hand shake does wonders for your soul. </p>
<p>Mechanics donâ€™t actually rely on tips to support their families, but some will probably be very happy when you tip them. They are indeed welcomed.</p>
<p>So what is considered adequate when tipping your mechanic?</p>
<p>I suggest this. If you are tipping a mechanic on a shop, 5% of the total bill before taxes, if it is a mobile mechanic around 8 to 10% of the bill (consider the convenience of someone coming to you), If the mechanic is also the shop owner then it is a little bit more tricky. Yes he/she makes â€œallâ€? the money but he/she also has all the expenses of the business (overhead), So maybe 5% will be fair.<br />
Remember be considerate. As you service providers are human, they get sad, distracted etc. Instead of withholding a tip, make a commentary to the manager for less than adequate service.<br />
I agree that for intended very bad service with no explanation or apology you tip 0. Sorry.</p>
<p>Bottom line, you tip when you can and what your heart tells you. If you are a cheap skate, so be it, nobody wants to change you.</p>
<p>I read some service providers saying that they wonâ€™t accept a tip; well you must be making very good dough. But will you also reject a smile and or a handshake? No? I didnâ€™t think so. The money that the customer wants to give you comes from their heart most of the time, so actually you could be hurting their feelings by not accepting their present.</p>
<p>Remember, the mechanic only gets a small percentage of what the shop charges, and none from the parts he/she usually sells.<br />
With out the mechanic the shop wouldnâ€™t be selling all those parts, still they get zero commission from that.</p>
<p>I think if you canâ€™t tip because you are actually broke, then indeed smile and give us a handshake, we will understand.</p>
<p>What about giving presents as tips?</p>
<p>I think that is up to you. If you are the kind of person that likes giving baked goods or a 6 pack of beer, by all means. Give to your heart contents.<br />
The point here is this, what you are doing is showing your appreciation, not buying better service. Thatâ€™s why I recommend giving tips after the service is provided. That way no one has any expectations or duties.</p>
<p>Also do you have to tip every time you get service? Again, it is up to you. Some times you may not have enough to make a tip. It is ok. I donâ€™t think a mechanic that received a tip from you before is going to be offended because you didnâ€™t tip him/her again. Do not worry, as I said before we donâ€™t really count on your tip, but we donâ€™t hate the gesture.</p>
<p>I suggest you do some research on the net about this subject. There you can find much info that will enlighten you. Many people donâ€™t know when or how much to tip. If you go out   or travel a lot you need to educate your self if you want to avoid embarrassment. You need to be able to acknowledge other peopleâ€™s efforts in to be able to socialize. Cheap skates are not liked anywhere, donâ€™t be one of them.</p>
<p>9/07</p>
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